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It is Wednesday, so time for a Hump Day post about dating, sex and relationships. Today is not very sexy… How many times do cheaters marry the other person? I thought of this because my dad and stepmom are celebrating 50 years together. That is an amazing milestone. My mom claimed they had an affairContinue reading “Cheating”

How Did You Meet?

It is time for my weekly Hump Day post where I write about dating, sex, romance and relationships from the perspective of a single, 55+ year old woman. I am always curious about how couples met. I love a good Meet Cute story because I am truly a romantic. Plus my pragmatic side is informallyContinue reading “How Did You Meet?”

What’s My End Game?

I am whipping myself into shape. In the past year I have lost 26 pounds, gotten LASIK, finishing up Smile Direct, my eye lash lifts, countless serums and lotions, major wardrobe overhaul. Why? To feel sexy and attractive. Yep, for the first time in my life I am really focused on me and my body.Continue reading “What’s My End Game?”

I’m in the Desert

I am definitely in a dry spell/void/lull when it comes to the dating scene. I am completely off the dating sites with no plans to get back on them. I want to try meeting men in real life, but I have been quite a homebody. Wait, let me recant the homebody statement. Yes, I amContinue reading “I’m in the Desert”

Karma’s Hilarious – Part 2

It is Wednesday, so time for my weekly post about sex and dating. No sex and no dating, so no need to get your panties in a bunch. 😂 Last week I continued my story about Bogart, an online dating match. Let’s update my scorecard. Have we met? Nope. Why? It seems nutty right? TakeContinue reading “Karma’s Hilarious – Part 2”

Karma’s Got A Wicked Sense of Humor

Today is Hump Day when I blog about dating and sex as a 55+ year-old woman. Today is not explicit, sorry. 😁 I left all of you Dear Readers with me being impatient and irritable about not being to immediately meet Bogart. This post is cobbled together from my notes and the current situation, soContinue reading “Karma’s Got A Wicked Sense of Humor”


What is it about online dating that can bring out the flaky and unhinged in people? I haven’t had another creepy dude, thank goodness. I have just had lackluster connections for the most part. I have had three guys want to make plans and then they fizzled before we get things on the calendar. IContinue reading “Disappointing”